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Any thoughts.

There is a saying out there that sometimes two people have great chemistry together but they aren't meant to be together. They just always have that connection. agree or not agree?

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Asked by Sillylins at 12:38 PM on Jun. 3, 2013 in Relationships

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  • Yep, one of my ex's and I have amazing chemistry. That was the only part of our relationship that ever worked. We were on and off for years, anytime I was single we were together (not dating though). I have a feeling it would be the same way now if he weren't married or if I didn't think sleeping with a married man was wrong.

    Answer by kmath at 12:40 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • Oh I agree best relationship happen when feelings and chemistry take time to develop..........great sex happens with just the chemistry

    Answer by pinkparcel at 12:41 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • I agree. You can have great chemistry with someone but aren't meant for each other.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 12:50 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • ^^^Totally agree w/ pinkparcel - There's sex, (w/ chemistry) and then there's love-making that comes from a deeper bond that goes beyond the chemistry.


    Answer by mrsmom110 at 12:52 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • agree - even from a friendship standpoint. I have a great friend (a guy), we're both single and have a fantastic time when we're out together. Anyone who sees us thinks we're a couple, but we know that it would never work out. One of us would be dead within a year!

    Answer by KPBMom at 1:18 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • Agree. Long term relationships require a lot of different things, like shared vision, values, care for each other.

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 1:20 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

  • I agree. Chemistry can spark a relationship, but by itself, chemistry cannot keep it going.

    Answer by Ballad at 2:03 PM on Jun. 3, 2013

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