so my ex's visitation needs to be supervised and for a while back in oct-dec i'd let the kids go over for a day believing that his mother was supervising. the first time i let them sleepover i discovered (from his mom who texted me so i have proof of this) that she let the kids go with only him and his sister in the car.
i stopped letting them go over there completely after that and since then he's had to come here or ill bring them over there but ill stay the whole time.
anyway, his sister is a major stoner. her instagram is loaded with pics of her holding buds of weed, smoking bongs, and looking blasted out of her mind. two weekends ago when we went to visit his grandma, she showed up and told everyone she was "tired" but her eyes were glossy, eyelids low and bloodshot. not to mention i looked at her instagram account later and discovered she was with a friend getting high before she came over so i know her stoned face. today when we went over, i could smell the weed as soon as we walked in the door. low and behold, she walked out to the living room looking stoned. went and got herself some food and went back to her room. their mom was right there and did nothing about it. a little while later, youngest dd had to go to the bathroom so i went with her, and his sister's room is right next to the bathroom. the smell was most potent right there.
i dont give a shit what she does (and its not legal in my state btw) but i believe the fact that she does it, and his mom knows it and let my children go with her and her son (who is convicted of child abuse against my children) is proof that nobody in that house is responsible. i just dont want to bring it up and look foolish since i dont have any hard evidence of her pot smoking other than my own word.
going anon since court is coming up in a few weeks.
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