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Is it against law to have a 15 yr old boy babysit his 15 month old brother at midnight while mom goes to get stepdad, when said 15 yr old needs to get up for school next day?

Then gets on to son for being grumpy and says phone needs to be on counter by 9 pm on school night. What is difference in staying up to tend to 15 month old infant or having phone?

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Concerned372

Asked by Concerned372 at 9:41 PM on Jun. 4, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Unwise and inconsiderate, yes, but probably not illegal.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 9:45 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • Where is Mom going to get the step dad at? From work? Out partying? Pickup at the airport?
    Wherever she is going its best to take the baby with her or have him arrange for a ride home at that hour.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 9:45 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • I would think a 15 month old would be asleep at that time. Anyway I'm not sure that would be illegal.
    skinnyslokita

    Answer by skinnyslokita at 9:48 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • Depends on the state/local laws but in my state, no it is not illegal.
    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 10:11 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • I would think a 15 year old could be responsible for babysitting any child. A baby monitor in the teens room would wake him up if he needed to be in bed. sleeping for school.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:25 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • Is he laying down while the 15 month old is sleeping also?
    How long are the parents gone long?
    No it is not against the law I babysat at 15 for other people on school nights.
    It is a little unfair to be upset because he is a little grumpy because he was up late on your behalf, however.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 10:30 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • If both are sleeping, and the baby monitor is in the teens room, and you're only gone a short time, it's really no different than if mom or dad were home sleeping with the baby monitor next to them.

    But as far as the legality of it, you could probably find out easily by either doing an internet search of your question, or calling your local police department.
    danif1288

    Answer by danif1288 at 10:33 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • BTW- are you the 15 year old boy?
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:52 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • No it's not illegal. It may "suck" but so do a lot of things.
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:54 PM on Jun. 4, 2013

  • its legal, i did it (tho i got paid). and yeah its an asshole move to be mad at someone for getting less sleep, when they got less sleep b/c they were doing something for someone. granted, most 15 month olds get enough sleep that the 15 year old could have gone to bed and everything been a-ok.
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 1:42 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

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