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2 Bumps

Does he mean it?

I have a history with this guy like 3 years or so we have one child together. Anyway he broke up with me about 3 months ago. Well he wanted to take our 2 year old on his vacation and I didn't think our child should be there if his new gf is there. So I said if you want our child there ill have to be there. So he said ok and told his current gf that I was there but in a different bed.
So we have been on vacation for 4 days now and last night he came on to me and one thing led to another (I'm still in love with him so it was hard to say no) and next thing I know we shared an intimate moment.

Then he turns to me and says "that meant nothing...don't tell ANYONE or ill never speak to you again" then he rolled over and went to sleep.

My question is did he really mean it meant nothing? I am so confused now. :(

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:17 AM on Jun. 5, 2013 in General Parenting

Answers (20)
  • You were just a booty call.
    What a fucking sick. I would go ahead and tell his GF.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 11:20 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • What did it mean? It means that neither of you have any respect for you. Don't fall into this trap again.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 11:22 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • Wow!

    Answer by feralxat at 11:26 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • It blows my mind that women actually put themselves in these positions...

    What happened to NO???

    Answer by m-avi at 11:33 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • That's just terrible. He used you.

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 11:37 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • Yes it meant nothing but releasing a need. No more than going to the bathroom means anything.

    Answer by Dardenella at 11:38 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • It is a bad situation to begin with and you are just hurting yourself for allowing it to happen because of your feelings.
    Melissa K.

    Answer by Melissa K. at 11:38 AM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • I think it's insanity you went on a trip with his girlfriend but worse, you were used and now he threatened you. Scumbag that he is. You're in love with a jerk. Move on.

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 12:21 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • A person can only do to us what we allow them to do.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 12:50 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • I'd so tell his gf what a jerk

    Answer by AnonNdrag at 1:13 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

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