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I have been happily married for almost 13 years. The last 4 or 5 times me and my husband have had sex I can't orgasm. I don't know why. Our sex life has always been decent. Its frustrating and making him feel bad. Help!!!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:07 PM on Jun. 5, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (19)
  • more foreplay before penetration.....?
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 4:09 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • He does. It feels good. I don't cum with foreplay.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:12 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • Why? What's changed? New meds? New birth control? Major upset in the relationship like cheating, or some other breech of trust?
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:14 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • And how about with masturbation? Are you ok there? Feel free to PM!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:15 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • I don't either...get him to spend A LOT of time down there, then when you're about to then penetration...or maybe he's just not doing it right ? idk
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 4:15 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • Nothing has changed which is the weird thing. Honestly he isn't very good down there but I don't masturbate so I don't really know what to tell him to change.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:16 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • How old are you? Any dryness down there? Maybe a new kind of lube?

    As to masturbation, see if you can get yourself to have an orgasm. Even if you haven't done it before--well, you may be the best lover you ever had.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 4:23 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • I am 32. I have no problem with dryness. I get in the mood. I wouldn't even know where to start with masturbation. I know sad.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:33 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • pm partygal, she can help you with all that
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 4:46 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

  • Honey please explore that body of yours!!!! masturbation is ok...specially when you are having problems reaching orgasm, find that pleasure point yourself and then point it out to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    older

    Answer by older at 4:53 PM on Jun. 5, 2013

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