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What the heck is he doing in there?

My dd12 goes into the bathroom and stays in there for 30-40 minutes I do ask if he is ok and he says yes I just tell him to stop messing around yes there are times he says he's taking a big dump or he'll take a shower but my dh gets mad at him I just let him be if I need to use the bathroom I go to our other bathroom.

Your thoughts?

And if it is what I think he is doing is everyday OK?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:46 PM on Jun. 6, 2013 in Tweens (9-12)

Answers (11)
  • He's twelve. Three guesses, and the first two don't count.

    Answer by Ballad at 2:07 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • He'll go blind, you know. LOL

    Answer by Ballad at 2:10 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • who cares what he's doing. If you leave him alone he might be out sooner.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 1:55 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • And yes, there is no such thing as doing it too much. It won't fall off lol.

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 1:47 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Come on, you know what he is doing in there! It is called masterbating. Or jacking off.
    Does he have his own room? Glad you have 2 bathrooms.

    Answer by louise2 at 2:04 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Keep an eye on your conditioner bottle! Boys love that as lube.
    Tell him he only needs to be in there if what he is doing requires running water. His room is more private and more acceptable (unless of course he shared his room with another sibling or something!)

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 2:22 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • He is doing exactly what you think he is doing, or more than likely. He is not going to hurt himself. Now if he happens to take a vacuum cleaner in the room with him, you might need to be concerned. lol

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:36 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Do you really have to ask!?

    Answer by maecntpntz219 at 1:46 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Why do you call your Son DD? I call farce on this post. BYE!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 1:48 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • LOL. Do you REALLY want to know what he's doing in there? Because I think you have some kind of idea of what he is doing in there and you just want us all to tell you it's something different.

    Guess what. . . .
    It's not. He's doing exactly what you already know he is doing.

    Answer by QuinnMae at 3:19 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

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