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Court in an hour *UPDATE* =(

My stbx seems to have a guardian asshole on his shoulder because everything goes his way. Our case was heard right away. Apparently when my stbx filed his response he submitted a fee waiver. The court rejected his fee waiver therefore his response went unfiled. But the judge today gave him a whole month so he could pay it. The judge also refused to order any temp support for me at this time. We are continued until July 1st.

I guess all of my stbx's bragging about the judge was correct. This is truly a nightmare.

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:51 PM on Jun. 6, 2013 in Just for Fun

Answers (14)
  • I'm sorry. Try not to let what happen consume you. He will have his day in court and lets hope he gets a judge that will throw his gable at him.

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 1:54 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Unbelievable! The things the courts let people get away with. I've been in and out of court with my ex since 2005, nothing surprises me any more but I am sorry you are going through this.

    Answer by missanc at 1:57 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • court is such a waste of time. you have no idea how much time & money ive wasted because of idiot judges. im sorry it didnt go accordingly today, just be patient and keep hanging in there.

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:58 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • I'm sorry. That has to be discouraging. But that was only the first round. His luck will turn. Go in fighting when the next bell rings, Rocky.

    Answer by Ballad at 2:04 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • Hugs mama, I am so sorry!

    Answer by kmath at 2:04 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • bad


    Answer by staciandababy at 2:15 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • That fucking sucks!!! I'm so sorry!

    Now I'm hoping and wishing Karma comes and bites his ass sooner rather than later.

    Answer by Rosehawk at 2:17 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • I can not tell you how sorry I am. I can not fathom how a jusdge could not order him to support his family until there is a ruling.

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:34 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • I am still going to pray for a good outcome for you. It always looks dark before the dawn :(

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:45 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

  • thank you...
    i am severely beaten down at the moment. plus this is the weekend when he said he's going to pack all my stuff in a truck and haul it to my parents' home before i'm even ready to move. i married Satan. and I am dealing with the consequences.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:50 PM on Jun. 6, 2013

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