I been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. He's 31, I'm 21. I have a 2 year old son, which is not his biological son. I've been frustrated with him though. Currently we are both living with our mothers. He doesn't have a job, he's been looking but nobody has been calling him back. I have a little part time nanny job, but I can barely mantain, so lately I've been looking at schools.
Living with my mom is hard on her, considering my 4 siblings live with her, including my child. The bills are High, and the house is crowded. My boyfriend at his age shouldn't even be living with his mother, period.
Lately I've been trying to talk him into maybe getting out there on our own. Seems as if we're too comfortable in our situation now. Maybe if we apply at jobs about 40-60 minutes from our home, we can get our own place, and just basically go survival mode. We will have no choice but to work out butt off and have a new little place. I was thinking of just starting over and fresh elsewhere.
Every time I bring this up, he never says much about it. He doesn't sound enthused. Basically he just doesn't sound like he's up for it. I literally talked about this AGAIN 15 minutes ago, he didn't say much, and just fell asleep. I feel as if why be with a 31 one year old when I can be with someone my own age. That's what he's acting like it.
What are your thoughts?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Jun. 6, 2013 in Relationships
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