So I allow my husband talk to his ex, who was his friend for a long time before they decided to be together. While they were together (year before we met) he got her pregnant while she was still married to someone else! The girl was forced to get an abortion by her mother-in-law. She told the father (my current hubby) that she had miscarried. He only found out from her recently that she really aborted it. My husband really wants kids of his own and we've been trying for a year now with no success as of yet. I saw on his text message to her yesterday that he wishes she had had the child, and asked her if she regretted it. I was so shocked and hurt by this. I know he loves me and my son (who he treats as his own). Thats why it was so left field for me to read this. He says I'm taking it differently than how he is thinking. It was something that was half his that was taken away from him without choice. He wants to give his father a grand baby before he dies.(men in his family rarely live last 60). Am I vindicated in my feeling so hurt? I feel cut to the bone! Its done, its over with! Good things and bad things happen for a reason. I dont believe I would have entered a serious relationship with him if she was still preggo. He says it was over with with her once he met me, regardless.... That I make him happier, blah blah blah. I know we are solid in our love now and that he is not going anywhere. I'm just not sure how to take his statement to his ex. Help me see this in a different way....
Asked by Anonymous at 1:54 PM on Jun. 7, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:00 PM on Jun. 7, 2013
I couldn't get past I allow my husband
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