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2 Bumps

When you first told your boyfriend/husband you were pregnant, what was his reaction??

was it:
1) im so happy honey, i love you so much.

2)whos baby is it??? smh!

3)on my goodness a baby, what do i do??

4)i love you, but do you think were ready???

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Asked by rosesrred1 at 4:28 PM on Jun. 7, 2013 in About CafeMom

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  • 5) other.. My sons dad kicked me out of his house and never spoke to me until we went to court a year later.

    But my HUSBAND was always excited, worried, nervous.

    Answer by funlovinlady at 4:30 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • First child he was "Thank God!
    Second child : "I think I'm having a heart attack". LOL!

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 4:33 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • for baby #1 he was excited and had to go call his mom

    baby #2 he said "Are you f*cking kidding me?"

    Answer by staciandababy at 4:34 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • He went and got a beer. It was unexpected and not exactly a happy occasion for him. He wouldn't change it for the world now though.

    Answer by kmath at 4:37 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • I think he said "Awesome" for both and gave me a hug haha, they were both pretty much planned so it wasn't a big surprise. He left so early in the morning that I wasn't awake yet when he left and you have to use that firs pee for the best results so it was Extremely hard for me to not call and tell him I had to wait all day until he got home.

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 4:39 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • 4)i love you, but do you think were ready???

    We were literally in a state of shock! But the next day we went shopping and saw baby clothes, and instantly got excited!

    Answer by kylie_bob at 4:42 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • First Kid-a bit of 3 & 4. we'd only been married a few months and it was a complete accident. i was on the pill and had taken it perfectly so it was a big shock. i was in a state of panic and hysteria, so he reacted better than i did!

    Second Kid was all 1...we actually got to try for DS haha

    Answer by okmanders at 4:48 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • Given that I'd struggled with infertility for eight years and finally been told to give it up and move on with my life, and given that we'd been together exactly once and barely penetrated--yes, it can happen on your first time if he is barely in, in case any na├»ve teenagers are reading this--the depth of his shock (and mine) could not be measured by any number or scale known to man. We wouldn't change anything for love nor money now, though.

    Answer by Ballad at 4:50 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • Number 1, both times.

    Answer by RyansMom001 at 5:42 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

  • He told me...
    I freaked and went into denial

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 6:30 PM on Jun. 7, 2013

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