I just moved in with my boyfriend about 5 months ago and so far everything has been ok but not great in bed. Recently he has just been giving me a perverted feeling tho and I hate it. Like everytime he wants to have sex he will get out all of our toys and put porn on to watch which was ok when it was every once in a while but at this point it is just really getting under my skin and I don't like him to even touch me now. I don't like having sex anyways so this is just really starting to bother me. I have told him before that I don't want to always have sex like that and he just blows me off.
When I first started dating him he made some smart a** remark about his ex because she asked him one night if they they could just have regular sex and I didn't really know what he meant by that but now I know why she said that. It is just really bothering me. So tell me what you ladies think. Am I just being stupid or is it odd?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:22 PM on Feb. 17, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:26 PM on Feb. 17, 2009
Unfortunately he showed signs of this before and you didn't really see it. I think you've got to sit him down and talk to him about this outside of when the sex actually happens. Let him know you're not comfortable with it anymore. Let him know exactly what you like and don't like because men need to see it black and white sometimes. This is really a big deal so its important that you come to an agreement that you both can be happy with if you want your relationship to go to the next level.
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