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im in a rut..i need advice

im stuck between two guys. idk who i want to be with. how can i figure out who it is i truly want to be with?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:07 PM on Feb. 17, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • Pro/Con list. How do they treat you and your children?

    Answer by MamaChamp at 10:09 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • Ask if they want to be in a polygamous relationship with you! YAY!

    Answer by prettyrayray at 10:13 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • ha yeah right

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:14 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • lol prettyray...

    Answer by MamaChamp at 10:15 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • What are their goals for 1 year, 5 years, 10 years... ? What about their families, you'll be "marrying" them too. His family support system may lead more to his personality and future tendencies. Is he a sports nut? Gaming fanatic? Can you support his hobbies? Do you have an agreeance about religion, child rearing, health care?

    Answer by Trinjo at 10:18 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • If you are serious, you should take some time off from both of them. Not an eternity, just a few weeks. The right man will be patient. The wrong man's true colors will come out, and you'll have to be strong enough to see it.

    Answer by hopelessnance at 10:30 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

  • If either one of these guys were right for you, you wouldn't be asking yourself which one you like more. So obviously, neither one of them are good for you.

    Answer by sarapurser at 11:25 PM on Feb. 17, 2009

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