i've known this family for almost two years now. she's with an abuser who thinks every guy she talks to she's sleeping with. when she's out she has to be on the phone with him or she's sleeping around. she'll tell me that he thinks she's sleeping with my guy! she says this EVERY DAY! not one time but 4 to 8 times a day! i've told her i didn't want to hear it and she still keeps saying it. so i told her unless they stop voicing it to me, i don't want her around me.
heres where the trouble starts, she lives in housing and HAS to do volunteer work 8 hours a month. she chose my church (i've been helping out for six months before she came in) and she's telling everyone i'm telling everyone lies, that i'm doing this or that to her. she just doesn't quit, and then they come and tell me what she's saying. one lady almost punched her for it! the one lady in charge in charge keeps saying just let it go. she's only here twice a month to get her hours, she doesn't come to church anymore, just let her talk and don't listen.
she hasn't been there for almost three months, she came for the first time weds, and now it's worse than ever. i'm on the verge to let the 60yo just pound her like she wants to do just to shut her up! everyone that works at the cove are my friends, we are a solid team and we really don't need nor want all this negativity that this other woman wants to bring into our circle.
you know what i mean? but really how would you deal with her?
we are a food and clothes pantry.
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