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My husband is currently deployed, we have had a rough 3 years of marriage because of his porn addiction, constant lying, and talking to females on dating sites. His excuse has been it isn't me its the other me that I can't control. He says he loves me more than air??Well I moved back home to CALI to have my son who was in the NICU for about a month. He stayed in NC until he got his pr-deployment leave, when he came my son had already been born he was 3 days old. We had a good time togeher he had told me he will be a better man when he comes home from deployment and that he will do whatever it takes to make me happy. Well a month into his deployment he started spending money like crazy we had a lot of bills to pay and our debt. And I saw he had charged 80 to a dating site POF. I was pissed I wrote to him he called me yelling at me how could i accude him of such a thing that his trying to change, I found hhis profile. Than again he charged his card with another site MEETME than again I comfronted him same thing again. Well I just stopped wrote him a long email he called me said that he promise it wasn't him, around the same time he was getting NJP'D so his command wasn't too happy with him. Well now its been 3 months I let everything go he seem to be changing and seemed to be happy. My friend emailed me with a link to his meetme page it said he was on 3 days ago. I sent him the link and told him not to play me for a fool I am not blind. He admitted to having the pages but he says he hasn't done anything. I am sorry this is so long I am just so tired of the lies I feel like I need to move on but as a military wife, so many have told me I should wait because it could really affect my husband being out in a war zone. I tried talking to him again but every time he acts like nothing ever happened i know im all over the place any advice?Answer Question
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