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Sex question! adult content

Just need some advice please, I don't think I've ever had an orgasm, and I'm guessing if I 'don't think' then I can't have had one.
Sorry for tmi but when hubby rubs my clitoris for too long I just cannot keep still! It makes me twitch like crazy, its almost as if it tickles me! And eventually I end up kicking him away! It's the same issue when I try rubbing it or when we use a vibrator.
It's driving me crazy! The sex is amazing but this is so frustrating.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:08 PM on Jun. 13, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • If he's doing it, chances are he's doing it wrong. The twitching thing is your body's fight or flight kicking in, and that's what you do- you kick him away.
    You need to relax, and experiment giving yourself an orgasm. This might invoke a bubble bath, reading something erotic, porn or just fantasizing. If it feels good, you're doing it right.
    The other thing you need to come to grips with is "what are you afraid of"? Making noise? Peeing? Farting? What's making you stop?

    I'm mobile right now. I can post more later, I just wanted to out my 2 cents in!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:19 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • We need PartyGal for this one....she'll be here soon...hang on!
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 7:12 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • Damn autocorrect!!!!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:24 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • You need to experiment when you're alone to learn to give yourself an orgasm. Once you know what sets you off you can teach him. Have you ever tried not kicking him away?
    Not to be tmi, but direct stimulation of my clitoris is too much for me and although it feels good I can't reach orgasm that way. I need stimulation around but not right on. And toys that vibrate make things so much quicker!
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 7:35 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • PM me anytime!
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 10:45 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • I bumped you but now my feelings are hurt.......JK!
    ILovemyPaulie

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 7:15 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • I hope your clitoris isn't broken! I haven't made the cure yet.
    staciandababy

    Answer by staciandababy at 10:53 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • Staciiiiiiii...........Do I need to send you instructions?
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 1:55 AM on Jun. 14, 2013

  • That's actually who I was hoping for!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:15 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

  • I know I just re read that comment of mine, and it sounded quite rude! Very sorry! But when I typed this question party gal was the first name to pop into my head!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:22 PM on Jun. 13, 2013

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