I'm going to be scheduling appointment Monday to file for divorce. I hope to get in within the next couple weeks. I'm not moving, the house we are in is rent to own and I already discussed it with the landlord. He wants me and the kids to stay in the house and he will do what it takes legally to do so. The house is worth 75k but I'm getting it for 24k. Payment are 300 a month. Its over 3k sq feet 7 bed 3 bath and needs some work..my dream home. So far I put in the time in remodeling. Not my husband. Leaving this house is not an option. I just have to deal with my husband's negativty until papers are served and we can get him out. The constant put downs toward me, our kids, my family and friends. He belittes everyone. I keep telling myself I'm one day closer to being divorced but there are moments where it gets too much. Any advice?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:16 PM on Jun. 14, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 11:30 PM on Jun. 14, 2013
Divorce is like an onion in that there are many layers that often make you cry. There are a lot of women on here that have gone thru a divorce and can give you lots of advice. If you haven't already, check out some of the groups. My ex was very controlling and belittled me every chance he got. Yet he was the one that left since he didn't want to be married. I've since realized that what he did was emotional abuse and quite possibly more damaging than physical abuse. Just keep your head up. Find something to keep yourself busy. Is the weather nice? Can you plant a garden? Good luck. HUGS!
Answer by tempsingl3mom at 11:36 PM on Jun. 14, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 11:51 PM on Jun. 14, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 12:02 AM on Jun. 15, 2013
Answer by Dardenella at 12:12 AM on Jun. 15, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 12:29 AM on Jun. 15, 2013
If the house is in both your names. Unless he freely leaves and gets a apartment. You just do not automatically get the house. Even if it is rent to own. The judge will make that decision. Best theing for you to do is start saving. Just in case he get to stay their.
Answer by louise2 at 7:21 AM on Jun. 15, 2013
Answer by smiley745 at 8:05 AM on Jun. 15, 2013