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I just got flirted with at the library..and he was cute...but (lol)

he asked if my daughter (5) was my granddaughter

we were at the craft table, both our daughter were making snakes
he was staring at me like i was on fire, so i finally asked him if i knew him
he said i looked familiar
i did say that his daughter (4) looked familiar , but not him
he was very friendly
and British accent
when he left he shock my hand and said he was looking forward to seeing me again

still laughing at the "is this your granddaughter" comment

is it time to pour a box of hair dye on the whites?

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Asked by fiatpax at 5:12 PM on Jun. 15, 2013 in Just for Fun

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Answers (15)
  • It is a shame that any mom that has a baby after the age of 35 is subjected to being asked if she is the grandma. Like only 20 year olds should have kids. Only dye your hair...if YOU want to. Hugs MOmma! Go back to the library and make a new "friend"! Whoop whoop!

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:23 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • Yes, fiat it is time, no need to make people think you are older than you are, do it and go back to the Library looking new and hot!

    Answer by older at 5:25 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • if i had been a grandma, i think he would still have been staring at me

    he could be a weirdo, who hits on all women with kids at

    i'll take it as a compliment
    it put a little spring in my step, a little swing in my hips

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 5:29 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • That happened to me too when my Son was around 3. I was talking about the new Train Table they got in the Library to another Mom & I said I bought one for my Son for Christmas. Then a real A-HOLE Woman said "sure you can afford it, your his Grandma". The other Mom said "NO, She is his MOM! I wanted to spit at her but just glared at her with a smirk. She never came to Toddler Playtime again. I can't imagine what she would say now when I bring my Daughter. Probably ask if I'm the Great Grandma! LOL! Some people have diarrhea of the mouth & don't have the capability to think before they speak.

    Maybe he was the child's Grandpa???

    Did he have on a Wedding ring??


    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 5:32 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • no ring
    and his 4 year old was talking abut when she is at mom's house

    he was not attached

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 5:36 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • i have never had a man look at me so intensely
    like he knew me and knew me well, maybe not like i was on fire as much as he was eating me up

    been forever
    is this creepy or a good thing

    wish some of you were there to assist with translation of 'the look'

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 5:38 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • BTW, I was pregnant & didn't know it yet!

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:42 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • goodness no

    i was 42 when my daughter was born
    48 now...with a 5 year old
    she could totally be my granddaughter

    when she was a baby, had a teenage girl ask if i was grandma, but expect from a teenager- i can guess high school when they are graduating from college- they all look young to me

    but a guy trying to hit on me...LMAO
    * now, we have to get together, have a wonderful life together...just so i can tease him forever about the grandma comment

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 5:48 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • Go for it!! :)

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 5:50 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

  • Well "anon",you're a cutie patootey!
    Paxy,I say go for it,and if dyeing your hair would make you feel good,go for that too

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:22 PM on Jun. 15, 2013

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