My husband started a new job about 3 months ago. He has worked different hours every since. Iundrrstand he needs sleep but I let him sleep for at least 8 hours a day! After that all he wants to do is lay on the couch and SLEEP more! But if one of his friends wants to go fishing or something so be it. He is right on top of that.
I'm getting fed up with it. It is literally driver ng me crazy. I just want to throw something at him as hard as I possibly can. I want to leave and never come back. I can't stand him. But we have one kid and one in the way so that's the only thing stopping me from leaving him. Plus I have no job and really nowhere to go. Idk what to do but this is making me crazy!
I'm not just ill with him. It makes me I'll with my 3 year old son!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:26 PM on Jun. 19, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by older at 2:28 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:30 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
You have to tell him how you feel. Three months should be enough time for him to adjust to his new schedule. Tell him how it seems like he has energy for things he likes to do, but not for his family. Ask if you can plan some time for just the family & for just the 2 of you. If he won't meet you half way, it's counseling or divorce. GL
Answer by mrsmom110 at 2:32 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
Answer by mrsmom110 at 2:38 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
Answer by okmanders at 2:43 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
Answer by NannyB. at 2:52 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
OK, I personally think that you feeling like this is partially due to being pregnant. I was a looney when I was pregnant. Everything pissed me off. That being said, I've been married 20 years & I can speak from experience. When we are upset, frustrated, irritable (for what ever reason) We give off a bad vibe. I am not blaming you at all since we have all been there in some way but I have some recommendations. First, get a hobby. Even a simple thing like a daily walk. Make yourself do it. Maybe a club at night or when someone can watch your child. Crafts, sell stuff on ebay, painting etc. Become happy with yourself & others will be drawn to you including your DH. He probably sees you are unhappy & he's just tired & Men do not know how to make us happy when we aren't. So this is up to YOU! Get happy doing your own thing & soon the relationship will be better. GL!
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 3:11 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 3:12 PM on Jun. 19, 2013
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