I work very, very hard, by choice at rennfaire. I hand all the kitchen matters for the royal court. I had some issues this year and addressed them to the guild master who basically told me to tell some one to do it. Not my job and I do not have any authority to do so.
The issue remained for the entire run. I had some other issues. I wrote them all down a week after faire was over so I could address them in a calmer manner but not forget. I tore a hole in the paper. I am still angry 2 weeks later. lol.
I have been asked to join every other guild in the faire so it is not a question of will he kick me out etc. I am contemplating a move to a different guild anyway.
Here is my question. I have been in this guild for a very long time and seen it all. This is a new guild master and I knew he would have some difficulties just because it is his first year. He has asked me to tell him what problems I may have had and problems I have seen/ heard throughout the run of faire. He has also asked (email) what I feel he needs to improve in his guildmastering.
I am still furious. I like this man but I am afraid of what I will say. This is the second time he has asked.
Should I keep ignoring the posts for now?
Should I try to type it out and just keep getting madder as I type and trash the letter many times?
Should I just vent it all out and get it off my chest no matter how much I hurt him?
He is a very sensitive person and easily hurt. Again, everyone of us is a volunteer.
I don't know what category to post this in.
Answer by gdiamante at 1:10 AM on Jun. 21, 2013
Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 5:24 PM on Jun. 20, 2013