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My only daughter gives a hard time to her dad & me cause she argues, disagrees, gets upset whenever we tell her or insist on her wearing a trainee bra! She makes us very frustrated & upset as well!

Pls. Help!

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Asked by Teji at 3:12 PM on Jun. 21, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Why are you making her wear one? Maybe she just doesn't feel ready?

    Answer by ABeaverhausen at 3:14 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • I think her boobs are her choice theres no reason to force a "training bra" on her.... Maybe that would make yall fight less.

    Answer by LostInMyMind at 3:21 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • I would let her decide when she needs to wear one.

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:28 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • Another newbie.......

    Answer by baconbits at 3:33 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • how big are her bewbies?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:40 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • She'll wear one when her friends start wearing them.
    And perhaps this is a situation where you need not involve DAD!! She's probably mortified that you are discussing her breasts with her father!

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 3:58 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • I would have hidden for a week if my father had told me that!!! WHAT are you thinking letting him say that kind of thing to her!?!?!?! Come on!!!

    Answer by Crafty26 at 4:14 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • I am assuming that she shows through her clothing.
    This is an easy fix. Remove all lighter clothing from her . Only heavier, thicker clothing can be worn without a bra. She oes not have to wear it but if she does not do so them she must wear clothes that conceal her growing womanhood.

    BTW what are you using the bras to train her for?

    Answer by Dardenella at 4:16 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • Have you asked her why she doesn't want to wear a training bra? Maybe she's embarrassed because her friends don't have any yet. Maybe the bra is uncomfortable and another style would be better. Maybe it's just a power struggle and if you leave her alone, she'll start wearing the bra on her own.

    Answer by Ballad at 4:49 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

  • I would tell her you are wearing it!

    Answer by louise2 at 5:24 PM on Jun. 21, 2013

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