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My husband forced himself on me and I got pregnant!

We have a 2 1/2 month old. How can I tell people I'm pregnant again!

We were fooling around. I didn't want to go all the way bc we didn't have birth control in the house. He said he lost control. I WAS PISSED BUT FORGAVE HIM AND NOW I'm pregnant!

I don't want an abortion or this baby. My husband wants the baby. I'm so distraught and I have no family/support system. My husband's family are kind and loving.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:18 PM on Jun. 22, 2013 in Pregnancy

Answers (39)
  • My question is... do you feel he raped you? Or did he just convince you to have sex against your better judgement?

    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 10:22 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • So what is your question?
    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 10:22 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • I don't know. I'm confused and upset and I have no one to talk to!

    It wasn't exactly rape but I didn't give consent!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:25 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • Then I think it is a grey area. Is he a good man overall?

    Honestly... I would go punch your husband in the balls.... several times.



    Then I would suck it up and have the baby.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 10:27 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • Honestly... I would go punch your husband in the balls.... several times.
    Then I would suck it up and have the baby.
    Answer by SleepingBeautee


    ^^^Yeah, I'd probably go with that.

    QuinnMae

    Answer by QuinnMae at 10:28 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • Do you know that you can use the morning after pill (called Plan B) which doesn't require a prescription? It's cheaper with a prescription, but you can go up to any pharmacy and ask for it without any prescription or ID needed. It works for up to 3 days after unprotected sex. It's not an abortion pill, but it basically prevents fertilization of the egg so that you don't get pregnant. There are so many people who don't know about this and could have prevented unwanted pregnancies. It's safe and there are rarely any side effects. It's like a concentrated dosage of birth control pills. However, be sure you're not on any other medication like antibiotics that might affect how effective this works.

    hellokittykat

    Answer by hellokittykat at 10:29 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • Yes, he is a good man. He works his ass off to provide for me and our baby. I'm just not ready for another one and I'm upset about how it all happened!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:30 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • How far along are you?

    That was wrong of him to do that! No means no regardless of whether you're married or not!
    PMSMom10

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 10:32 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • I'm about a month along! We're struggling to pay our bills, how am I going to tell people I'm pregnant again!
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 10:35 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

  • What people are you worried about? Everyone in the country is struggling with something to maintain their life and we still find a way to get by.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 10:38 PM on Jun. 22, 2013

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