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Which thing hurts more to discover that ur husband likes a girl and she likes him back for 5 yrs , but they cant tell each others

Coz both r married and wen they see each other they are like confused and she blushes wen she sees him. Or if u discover that ur husband knows a stripper for 4 month and they went like 5 times to eat out here and there but didn't sleep with her. He called Their relation as friendship and it is over now.. Which one of these situations hurts the wife more.. U know its weird question but I have my reasons . Can u please give me ur opinion if u can .

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:03 PM on Jun. 25, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • sounds like you need a new husband
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • my head hurts... please learn proper English
    LostSoul88

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 2:07 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • If he smells like a cheater & looks like a cheater, he's a cheater!!! Time to kick him to the curb before he gives you a disease.

    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 2:07 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • all of it hurts, there is no one thing that hurts more. If that was my husband, he would no longer be my husband and be living with his stripper friend.
    LostSoul88

    Answer by LostSoul88 at 2:07 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • I think you need a heart to heart and maybe to find new companions.
    Dardenella

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:08 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • No one takes a stripper to dinner.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 2:52 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • Both to me. Both situations sound fishy to me. I wouldn't be 100% sure he didn't sleep with either of them. He definitely slept with the stripper, IMHO.

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 2:53 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • Not sure. It sounds like a painful situation all around.
    Ballad

    Answer by Ballad at 3:28 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • I believe that they would hurt equally badly. Has he always had difficulties remaining faithful? I believe the first step would be some marital counseling for the two of you.
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 4:19 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

  • no winner in this situation
    all losers except the divorce attorneys
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:22 PM on Jun. 25, 2013

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