Ok. So yes. I have posted about this guy before. We've known eachother for years. I've been off and on with him. Dating someone else etc. He and I were suppose to get together to hang out. but we always were eluding to sex. The most recent one I thought for sure I was going to over and have sex. Don't judge(it's been almost a year without any action) WE had sex for the first time last year. (We had wanted to for over 14 yrs)- since HS Anyways, I knew the risk was that I do and my heart would get broken. He asked me to come over and wear something sexy and tell him I want him. I said ok and asked what the address was. And he then texted back really? He said he got really nervous but not a bad nervous. And I texted back my heart was beating really fast. He said I know mine is too. And he was saying that he was really nervous to hang out with me, and that if we could just chat. And I said and what kind of chat. Just had to be clear. Text and phone. I also said I thought all this time you didn't want to talk, and he said yeah, me too.
I guess I should look at it as a good thing, he wants to get to know me, and it's not about sex anymore. It just kind of surprised me, just when you think you have it all figured out, life surprises you. What do you think ladies. could this be a good thing? Maybe I'm not clear on the background of the story... let me know.
Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 1:08 PM on Jul. 9, 2013
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Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:39 AM on Jul. 9, 2013
....getting to know someone takes time, falling in love is risky no matter what, how much or how long you have known the person. Best of luck!
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