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It it considered a call out if you make a post asking "Whatever happened to so and so?"

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:04 AM on Jul. 9, 2013 in General Parenting

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  • Depends on who you are asking about. Some get deleted and some end up staying.

    Answer by kmath at 11:10 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • I say no...
    did that get deleted?

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 11:15 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • Generally speaking YES. Though that is mostly in cases of people who took the long walk off a short pier and just snapped. Best bet however is to PM someone who knew them and ask. (This can be just about any one of the regulars that is still around)

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 11:17 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • Someone called me out the other night and it didn't get deleted.

    Try it and see, but don't go anon and you might receive good responses.

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 11:18 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • The more dramalicious the person, the more likely it's going to get poofed

    Answer by NotPanicking at 11:20 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • It depends on who's asking. Admins pick and choose, there is little consistency. If you are not part of the right crowd you will be deleted.

    Answer by Crafty26 at 11:24 AM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • Depends on who is asking the question
    I have been deleted for asking where is mom1234
    And others like this are not proofed
    I did an experiment and found some of these question, I made my own question with exact same words...mine went poof and the others stayed up. I asked admin about this and linked them to the others that were up and running
    Admin did not reply

    So I know if I ask...poofed, no matter who it is about
    Other members can ask same thing nd it is fine

    Different rules for different members I guess, or I just have an admin stalker, because I am adored

    Answer by fiatpax at 1:25 PM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • Maybe, maybe not. But you also have to worry when asking because there's drama surrounding the disappearance of members now and then, and if you ask innocently not knowing about the drama, you can get eaten alive. So put on your asbestos underwear first.

    Answer by Ballad at 1:50 PM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • It's a hit and miss kinda thing.

    Answer by tasches at 2:30 PM on Jul. 9, 2013

  • If the CM admin decide it is against the rules, they will just delete your question & send you an email telling you what you did wrong. I had that happen to me the other day when I mentioned about a man who posted on here about how to get his wife horny again. Ooopss, did I say too much already?! :/

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 2:51 PM on Jul. 9, 2013

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