good morning! i hope you are all well. eventho, i am not new to cafe mom stories, i am to being a member on the site.
from my posts already, i tend to go into long detail, cos well i do.
i have concerns, like that i already posted of my 4 y/o son driving me batty. the responses i received helped almost instantly, but being my husband won't follow through at night, well its like for nothing. but thanks!!! i know i will not allow a child to get under my skin like that anymore.
also about my 14 y/o freshman daughter, her stepdad has been around since she was 3, now she loathes him but she is 14. no excuse, but his alcoholism & her own peer pressure--would like to touch upon that further
the biggest one is going through with leaving my dh b/c of another relapse. (other psych issues involoved)
but lastly is there a mental health room?
i do not get on the puter much b/c of dh, he thinks its better if my 4 y/o(who broke my last laptop) should use it as a tv cos only one other tv, and it is his.
tho, when i do get on, he thinks im a puter junkie. he has no clue, for he won't allow himself into the computer world. its stupid he says..which means he just does not want to look like he knows nothing.
so, in general, i ask can someone like guide me. my mind is a cluster(i have post traumatic stress, as well as bipolar) worried that trying to get all this together and stay sane is going to be what drives me to a breakdown.
i need to leave but dont have resources at all. well i do, but i can not move in with my mom. i know i cant pick and choose, but i am finally happy with my mom and mine relationship now, we live together all that is gone in seconds.
i just have so much.
any help for on here, or somewhere else you may know i would appreciate.
btw-you can tell i totally love this site, after he left for work out came the puter, usually its loading facebook & tmz then i go down my bookmarks for instant wins and such.
but i came straight here without loading anything else...be happy that i have an outlet...cos i am
Answer by NannyB. at 8:08 AM on Jul. 10, 2013
Answer by gdiamante at 10:40 AM on Jul. 10, 2013
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 12:57 PM on Jul. 10, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 2:01 PM on Jul. 10, 2013
Answer by Monsita at 1:26 AM on Jul. 12, 2013
There are Domestic Abuse Groups, which I OWN ONE, on cafe mom.
Join my group. You are welcome.
Just remind me, who you are in the application.
Answer by SissyAnn141 at 3:18 AM on Jul. 17, 2013