I'm pregnant with my second little girl and my friend (same age as me) just got married and has been trying to get pregnant for a while now. She has PCOS really bad and is on metformin and chlomid and who knows what else (I'm not very educated on fertility drugs). Well, we have known each other since we were little and I recently got her a job with me and two of our co-workers are also pregnant along with a few clients. Today our other pregnant co worker was talking about how her baby is up in her ribcage and I was talking about how mine is kicking me in the bladder and my friend goes "yeah, well mine isn't doing anything at all. That's nice too, huh?" and I immediately felt bad. We've talked about this before and I've offered to keep the baby talk to a minimum and she said it wasn't bothering her and that she's happy for me because we are such good friends but I know that she has to be feeling bad and I worry about her emotions while she's working with me and around all of these other pregnant women.
What could I say or do to make her feel better? I don't want her to start feeling negative toward me and I definitely don't want her feeling sad all of the time. I don't know what to do for her :(
Asked by Anonymous at 7:21 PM on Jul. 11, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by Ballad at 7:30 PM on Jul. 11, 2013
Answer by KarenT214 at 2:55 PM on Jul. 14, 2013