I was asked to be POA of my dying grandma this weekend. Her caregivers( her daughter and her husband) are suspected of abuse. They live in her home. We are bringing my grandma over to my parents house where she will live the rest of her days there. (Hospice gave her less then 2 months). That's happening at the end of this month. I've decided that my aunt can live in my grandma's until my grandma passes but I want to have something in writing saying she has until end of August to get all bills her name, then once my grandma passes she has 30 days to vacate the home.
The original idea was to let my aunt have the home but after finding out about the elderly abuse I rather have that bitch out on the street. The hospice can't prove there is physical abuse going on but emotional and mental for sure.
If I had more say I would have their asses out now but my uncle has asked me to keep them in there. He doesn't know my plans of kicking their asses out once she dies.
Do you know where I can find legal documents online? Or how to write one up? Can't afford a lawyer at all.
I also need to get a new will drafted because all of her leach sucking children claim not to know where it is.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 8:58 AM on Jul. 15, 2013
Answer by PMSMom10 at 9:12 AM on Jul. 15, 2013
If she's not coherent, I don't think a new will is an option. I think you'd have to contest the current one. It would give the abusers grounds to contest the new will if she isn't, saying that you coerced her or tricked her into signing the new one because she wasn't coherent.
I agree with PMS, though, that you should really get them removed now. Or at least get the process started. I'd get with a lawyer to help you with getting them out and figuring out the options with the will, but you can get POA forms in office supply stores or even online. Here's one site that has them, along with a whole slew of other legal forms.
Good luck! I hope your grandmother gets to live in comfort and peace for what remains of her life now.
Answer by wendythewriter at 9:42 AM on Jul. 15, 2013
Answer by Kara242 at 10:19 AM on Jul. 15, 2013
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Answer by PMSMom10 at 11:17 AM on Jul. 15, 2013
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Answer by midnightmoma at 11:40 AM on Jul. 15, 2013