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A girl in kindergarten 5 yrs old touched her best friend private parts and asked her to touch hers's. I mom caught them she said she was just showing her friends that her parts are same as hers.

Both girls love each other a lot and there parents are good friends. how as a mom i should handle this.  Should i make a big fuss about this or just talk to my daughter about not touching anybodys body parts.


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Asked by leo1977 at 6:41 PM on Jul. 15, 2013 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • What is your question?

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 6:42 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • And your question is? I'm assuming "LEO" is your astrological sign....

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:14 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 7:27 PM on Jul. 15, 2013


    Answer by DJDNY at 7:34 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 7:57 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • Uh...huh?

    Answer by idareyou at 8:41 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • Dafuq?

    Answer by Izsarejman at 8:43 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • Well i am not trying to beat any score here. I just need an advice..... to act intentions are very positive.....

    Comment by leo1977 (original poster) at 10:27 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • You mean you haven't already explained to your daughter tht private parts are private? Why make a big fuss? What would that achieve?

    They were playing doctors ...

    Answer by goldpandora at 3:28 AM on Jul. 16, 2013

  • @godpandora, I explained her about not touching private parts but when she met her freind after long time. WE moms were sitting on couches and washrooms were close to us. WE saw them going in then we opened the door and asked what were they doing together. They both said there were touching each other. When asked why were u touching..she said because i want to see if my friends got the same things as mine. So, i asked her to see and touch mine too.... I spoke with my daughter and my friend spoke with hers. My daughter was crying and promise me that she wont do this again.....
    Should i talk to her everyday about this know so that she remembers...

    Comment by leo1977 (original poster) at 8:24 AM on Jul. 16, 2013

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