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i have a 13 year old boy

a little 12 year old girl was trying to get him to have sex. when do i make him take condoms every where with him just in case he will be in 8 grade this year

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momof4450

Asked by momof4450 at 6:49 PM on Jul. 15, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • going crazy

    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:52 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • Never. You take him everywhere he goes. You let him invite his friends to your house where you can keep an eye on him, and you teach him that casual sex is a really bad idea, and that he needs to avoid it at all costs until he is a married man at which time he can have all the beautiful, glorious sex he wants !
    NannyB.

    Answer by NannyB. at 6:54 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • So you are blaming the 12yo girl for this? I doubt your son is unsent.


    Time to educate your son. 

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 6:54 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • and yes i have told him its best to wait till hes marryed
    momof4450

    Comment by momof4450 (original poster) at 6:54 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • no not blaming the 12 year old girl. and my son also came to me right away and told me
    momof4450

    Comment by momof4450 (original poster) at 6:57 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • I have heard this kind of tale over and over again...the pre teens are doing all kinds of stuff. So scary to me. I don't have a good answer but I suppose you have to have a talk and include birth control only because, you'd rather be safe. Ugh....
    jeanclaudia

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 7:01 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • and i have a 11 year old girl to is now a good time to have the talk with her.
    momof4450

    Comment by momof4450 (original poster) at 7:04 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • it scares me to cause i dont want the call all moms dread from the other mom
    momof4450

    Comment by momof4450 (original poster) at 7:07 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • WOW.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:15 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

  • They are getting younger and younger, but yes it is time for the talk, and please do not tell him to wait until he is married, that in this day and age is a bit far fetch, specially if he is starting to think about it at 13!
    older

    Answer by older at 7:53 PM on Jul. 15, 2013

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