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Have you ever seen this before?

Going through my messages and ran across this ... 


This is a system message. The message that was sent to you has been deleted as it contained content inappropriate for CafeMom. You can disregard this message.

I have never had this before. Does it mean that I had my first hate mail and the admins deleted it??


Asked by SpiritedWitch at 8:23 AM on Jul. 19, 2013 in About CafeMom

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Answers (13)
  • Yup I've gotten that. Pissed me off too... Let me police my own inbox. Besides I've had stuff that wasn't inappropriate deleted so who's to say the stuff they are deleting should be???

    Answer by Crafty26 at 10:28 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • I think I've had it happen. I assumed it was a spam message that had been sent to many people so they just removed it from everyone on the send to list, not that they were looking at my inbox.

    Answer by Bmat at 9:04 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • I got one a while back. I remember being sort of offended because it meant they were trolling my inbox lol. Silly, I know, but I wanted to know what it said before they deleted it!

    Mine happened to be from a member who had been kicked from the site.

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 8:44 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Nope. Never seen it.

    Answer by NannyB. at 8:25 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Means you have to curtail all that porn you trade with other members


    I never got one of those, or I did and never noticed

    Assume someone sent you a mass spam nasty email
    Will not be surprised if others get on here and say they have one also
    This things seem to come in bunches usually from a spam account or a member that is mass emailing others because she is upset that she has not been validated on answer section

    Answer by fiatpax at 8:41 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Yes, that's happened a couple of times to me.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 9:46 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Yes. I've had it from message spam.

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 10:00 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Nope

    Answer by Dardenella at 9:19 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Spam mail. I've had that happen before too.

    Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 10:36 AM on Jul. 19, 2013

  • Pax ... you know YOU like that porn we trade. *evil grin*

    Spam Nasty ... I like that ... cute.
    I figure someone from Mom Confessions sent me a nasty one.
    I am not liked by at least one Anonybitch over there.

    Comment by SpiritedWitch (original poster) at 8:48 AM on Jul. 19, 2013