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I married my boyfriend's cousin?

I have been married to my husband for 4 yrs. And i have known him for 11. I have 2 children from my past relationship when i was younger. My children father has never been in our life's only my husband i never care when ppl talk about us due to they are cousins but lately he has been thinking about it. He feels like r problems r the root of them beeing cousins. What do yall think? My opinion is that we r just passing a hard times in r relationship in all areas but we can get thru it.....

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Asked by lizbenavidez at 4:24 PM on Jul. 22, 2013 in Relationships

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  • So the baby daddy and the husband are cousins? I don't see how that would be a problem, it only is a problem if you all let it be a problem.

    Answer by cassie_kellison at 4:32 PM on Jul. 22, 2013

  • Well if the bio dad isn't in your life, how would you think the fact they are cousins is the problem, I would suggest working out your problems, one by one. Unless your in-laws are causing grief, I can't see how the fact they are related would make one whit of difference. Does the bio grandma/grandpa see the children?

    Answer by 2kids2dogs2cats at 4:44 PM on Jul. 22, 2013

  • they are what?

    only should be an issue if one of you is letting it be an issue...

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 5:38 PM on Jul. 22, 2013

  • Have you asked your husband to explain why he feels that the fact he is a cousin of your children's father is an issue?

    Answer by Ballad at 6:05 PM on Jul. 22, 2013

  • Talk to him and find out what the real problem is.

    Answer by morebee7 at 10:56 PM on Jul. 22, 2013

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