I live on an island and my family lives in the states. I have a 2+ year old and her father and I are on cooperative terms. He takes her 2 nights per week and we share her on holidays and celebrate her birthdays together. When I was 6 months pregnant (we were not together but remained friends) I told him that I did not plan on living on the island forever. He said he understood, asked if it would be ok to follow me where I went and I said of course. He has a large amount of debt, can never stick with a job and only gives me money for our daughter when he has extra - which is very rare. I have paid for everything from the hospital fees to food and never ask for a penny. I would like to move near my family in 5 months for support and to finish school (I have no family here). He has had 3 years to prepare for this moment: do I stay until he gets his s**t together or is 5 months reasonable notice?Answer Question
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