Do you make all of the decisions about your kids together, or can you make them on your own?
Our son and his girlfriend decided they were ready to have sex. My Husband and I found out. I sat on it for about a week, and then decided to call her parents, and tell them. I had given his girlfriend a week to tell them, and she didn't, and kept telling my son that she didn't know how.
I felt they needed to know, so I called them and we are all on the same page. During all of this my Husband's been out of state. Her parents and I agreed that they needed a break. Which was about a week. They are both 16, and have been dating for almost a year.
Today he was invited to their house. I spoke to her Mom, and they said they would be home, and it was okay with them.
I didn't call and talk to my Husband, I thought we had agreed it was up to her parents when they saw each other again. Hubby was upset. Said I should have asked how he felt about it first. I had already let him go. I feel like a child sometimes. I thought he could trust my judgement about it. He won't be seeing her everyday, only when her parents say it's okay. Which will maybe be once a week.
This isn't the first time he's made me feel like a child. I realize the decisions are ours, but I also feel we had agreed to something prior to this, and now he's upset at me because I didn't call and talk to him.
I'm always home, 24/7 with our 3 boys. He's away working about 290 days out of the year.
Oh and he got upset over all of it over text because he doesn't have a good signal. It all started when he saw a pic on facebook of our son, and he was at her house... Hope this wasn't too confusing. Thanks
Asked by Anonymous at 6:29 PM on Jul. 28, 2013 in Relationships
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