briefly, 33 yro son homeless staying in a shed, has gf who abandoned him and 3 kids, 1 not his , we have 5 mo and 5 yo -son has 22mo. Son needs to take care of himself and get it together but after hub and i got the baby and 5 yro the gf drops her 22 mo with our son! son is unable to do anything but watch after baby. hub and i are willing to send son to ND for work and get away-now not sure if son is going to go b cuz he has treated 22 mo o like its his own...what can i say to make him understand that he has two kids at our home he needs to care for too. and if he loved boy so much he would want a better home for him...we have absolutely no room in our home for another person, big or small.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Jul. 29, 2013 in Adult Children (18+)
I think he needs help with depression it can be treated but I don't think you are trained to do so. He won't get better with just words and support he needs medical attention. If you can't deal with kids call social services I guess. But main point here is get real help for this guy . He won't do better with out it and may even commit suicide.
Answer by pinkparcel at 2:21 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by midnightmoma at 1:37 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by Ballad at 1:48 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
He lives in a shed with a 22 month old baby? How does he feed the child? If I were you, I would take in the 22 month old (no room or not...c'mon, if you have room for Your Grandchildren then he can fit too). I'd call CPS & have the Mother give up her rights & adopt the child. Poor little thing is a human being too! Then I would have your Son join the Military. He needs a fresh start & discipline. Is he a drug user? If not then Military or help him find a job or rehab. I would not leave that 22 month old in his or his GF care. I wouldn't do that to a dog.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 2:56 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:09 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by PartyGalAnne at 2:05 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by baconbits at 2:07 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
....treated 22 mo o like its his own....
A child is NOT an "it"!!!
Answer by Crafty26 at 2:13 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 2:16 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
Answer by louise2 at 4:21 PM on Jul. 29, 2013
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