It just seems like men find my buttons and then continue to push them until I either push back or dissolve in a puddle of tears. Days like today, I just want to swear off men altogether.
Sure I will get lonely, but those feelings will pass, right?
The man that I have been seeing for almost 3 yrs decided today to make me feel like crap. We decided that next summer we are moving in together, then saving up money so we can get married and possibly buy a house. He got all upset because there are no plans being made. What does he expect? I'm not moving until next July (nearly a year away). It's way too soon to be looking for a job there, looking for a place there or anything. I keep asking him what he wants, what he is expecting me to do and he has no answers. Just keeps saying "I'm giving up having kids for you. Why can't you just meet my demands?"
I'm so close to telling him if he wants kids so bad, he should go find someone that can give him them. I CAN'T and frankly, I'm too old to start over and just plain don't want to. My oldest will be 18 in January and my youngest will be 13 in January. Tell me WHY I would want to start over?
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