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Visitaion- Tell me your take on this text.

Re: children going north
As per court order the children are not allowed to visit you in (your part of the state) until (family member) undergoes psychosexual evaluation.
Please do not ask again. As always you may visit them in (my part of the state) as school schedules allow.

Him: What do you mean by allow

Do people get stupid as they age?
Who the hell needs the word "allow" defined?!

Next, are we going to discuss the meaning of the word "is"?



No- I didn't respond. I wanted to. I was dying to. I had many CM worthy snappy comebacks. But, in the end I decided to just drop it and not discourage him from any further contact with the kids.

And, in the long run, I couldv'e been as bitchy as I wanted because that message was on 7/14 and no one has heard from him since 0.o


Asked by feralxat at 12:17 PM on Aug. 2, 2013 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • LOL! oh jeez.



    Answer by tnm786 at 1:09 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • He took a big dump that morning and his brain fell out his butt? That's the only reason I can think of that he wouldn't know what "allow" means.

    Answer by Ballad at 12:46 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:23 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 12:21 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • My condolences, I have an ex without a brain, too. He's just trying to push your buttons. I don't think I'd respond.

    Answer by HHx5 at 12:31 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • I don't know how you refrained from giving a snarky comment, he was begging for one with his stupid reply. I laughed when I read discussing the meaning of "is".

    Answer by Nos4 at 1:16 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • Allow+ If they are in school you can not take them out of school to visit

    He is being a dick and trying to make it seem like you are controlling everything so that he can not (will not be allowed) to visit.

    You bad girl you.

    Answer by Dardenella at 2:02 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • lol - I mean that's all I can really say.

    in all honesty I can relate. I could type/text out this long paragraph to certain people and i'm not sure if its me or them but after 2-3 pages of what i had said, I usually get a "what do you mean" ugh. its only best if the text is like REALLY short to some pple.

    Answer by americansugar80 at 4:39 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • The poor kids- I am just glad they were able to laugh it off
    They were actually surprised I didn't do the snarky response.

    Comment by feralxat (original poster) at 12:34 PM on Aug. 2, 2013

  • lol

    Comment by feralxat (original poster) at 12:48 PM on Aug. 2, 2013