This is compolicated. We have a sociopath son in low who is galsighting her, and has her lying and saying pretty nasty things about me. My husband and I both caught this man playing hard on games with our grandson - his 2 year old son. Our daughter blackmailed him into saying he did NOT see it, now my entire family believes I made up this awful lie. I played along at first because we don't know how to help her and she uses our grandkids as weapons. We thought if we played along, maybe we could at least see them, but after giving in to her blackmail, she are still cut out of their lives (by the demands of her husband.) It took me 2 years, but I finally got her to a shrink with me, she just sat there lying and when I tlaked to the shrink about it, he said I should just let her lie. Understand, I can't do this any more. I am tired of having no one speak to me, and I am tired of living with a man who is content to leave me out to hang. Understand we have been married 33 years, I love him very much and I HATE what she has done to him, I blame the sociopath pedophile, not him, but I fall asleep crying every night and wake up crying every morning. I don't really want to, but I feel like I have to leave.
Thanks for any input. I expect some snarky, nasty replies because I have never used a forum where there were not trolls, so please understand that with all I have been through, trolls merely amuse me.
Update: After writing this, I confronted my husband this morning and pretty much said something has to change, and he is tepping up to clear this mess up with my siblings at least. Please pray for my daughter and grandson, I do not know what else can be done for them. To the person(s) offended by my hit and miss presence here, I apologize but I run a farm, and I can only get to the internet occassionally and for short spells. I sat here after posting for quite some time, got no replies, so went and looked at a couple other threads. I must say, I am stunned that that comment was the closest thing I got to being trolled, and I appreciate it very much. This has been a very difficult time for me and I appreicate that people did not take the opportunity to make it worse just because they could. Glad I found this place, hope I never have to ask a question that hard again.
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 10:03 AM on Aug. 3, 2013
Answer by virginiamama71 at 10:07 AM on Aug. 3, 2013
Answer by Nimue930 at 10:09 AM on Aug. 3, 2013
Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 10:31 AM on Aug. 3, 2013
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Answer by Ballad at 2:00 PM on Aug. 3, 2013
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Answer by feralxat at 10:30 AM on Aug. 3, 2013
I expect some snarky, nasty replies because I have never used a forum where there were not trolls, so please understand that with all I have been through, trolls merely amuse me.
I find it amusing that you include commentary on trolls and then abandon your own thread...
Answer by feralxat at 10:20 AM on Aug. 3, 2013