My sister and I are ten years apart (27/17) and polar opposites physically- she's real tall/thin/small chest & butt and I'm shorter w/ curves. But she takes great model-worthy (and seductive looking) pix- I've always had suspicions that my husband has a crush on her, but it never really bothered me. We live across the country f/ each other and so when there are family get together's he sees that she's just a kid, unlike the pix she used to post on facebook (my husband and I don't use fb anymore, for over a year now- just fyi).
Anyway, I went to use his phone today to look something up (it was next to me, mine was upstairs- we use each others phone sometimes, no big deal) and the last thing googled was "(my sisters full name) pics". I asked him about it and up/down left/right he swore it wasn't him, but last night he got drunk w/ one of his friends (very rare occurrence) and it's his one friend that bothers me b/c all he does is talk about women/sex if i'm not there, so of course my first thought is gross- they both were talking about my sister (who knows what) and then looked her up.
Later (after conversing w/ his friend even though i said forget about it) he said that his friend asked if I had any cute sisters, so they looked her up. I don't believe it because I know for a fact I've shown this guy pix of my sisters and if my husband asked me for a pic I wouldn't thought that crazy- we probably would have laughed about it. But it does bother me they were looking for pix of her on google, bc the only ones that pop up are the ones that the rest of the family (and anyone who knows her age) think to be a bit inappropriate.
Okay, sorry for the longwinded explanation! Question is- do I just let it go? Or is there anything else I can even really do? I told him it just hurts because of the possibilities and grosses me out, wasn't trying to make a huge deal out of it. It's not like I can be mad, so maybe I'm also wondering how to get over this gross feeling?
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