So long story short back in march my husband cheated on me and the affair had gone on for months...he tried to kill himself and went into therapy...well after him telling me and I believed him, 3 weeks ago that same girl flew to Indiana where he's training for a new job, and they slept together again more than once! I had my mind made up to get a divorce atty and then remembered I heard u shouldn't get a divorce until your head is straight...well we've been together almost 15 yrs and married for 9 and have 2 little girls...I think cheaters are the scum of the earth and here I find myself questioning whether or not I can and should forgive him again!! What is my problem?? Where is my strength?? I feel lost because I know what I should do but just can't!!Answer Question
Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:02 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
Answer by DJDNY at 10:07 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:07 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
Is not easy but you have to think what is best for you and your girls. If he was really sorry of what happen he would have stop immediately after getting caught and will do everything possible to prove you that he has change and he want to work on the marriage. But instead he goes and cheat again to me that means he is not really sorry and has no plans to change either. Its your decision but he is showing you that he don't really care much about you or the family just about him and what he wants in the moment. Good luck and hugs.
Answer by Alisim at 10:11 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
.the whole time he was supposedly seeing her :( while we were "working it out"
Answer by DJDNY at 10:14 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
Answer by BeaverHouse at 10:18 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:20 AM on Aug. 6, 2013
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