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The big ? how many partners....

Okay honestly you can answer anon-how many partners have you had and when did you start? also what do you think is a "good" number for a woman at a certain age or how many is too many. my girlfriends and I had this discussion over dinner this wknd and I had to ask my cafemom friends. just interested in others opinion. no right or wrong answers

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 6:10 PM on Feb. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • I am 24-25 this year and I have had 6 partners. I dont know what would be a good or acceptable amount of partners per se' I know quite a few who have had quite a few partners. I would say more than 20 is a bit much to me. Personally I am happy with where I am but I am also married. No single sex in the city here lol...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:12 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • Ive had around 18 partners
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:13 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I'm 19 and have been with one man. I lost my virginity at 17 on my wedding night. I think you should be with one partner. It makes it that much more special. What special sense do women get from being with many men before marriage? I just don't understand it.
    navy-wife

    Answer by navy-wife at 6:14 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I was almost 21 when I lost my virginity. I have only ever had long-term relationships, each lasting 3+ years. I'm 40 now, and have been with/married to my husband for 10 years. Counting my husband, I've had 4 partners.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:16 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I was 15... too young I know. And I've had 11 partners. 1 a celebrity hehe!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:18 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I have had 11 partners and I personally feel that is too many. Many were just one night stands and easily forgotten. I think 4-5 is a good number to have. I don't think it is being slutty to have had multiple partners, I do feel it is important in your growth as a person. I know I learned a lot about myself with each time and I am now extremely comfortable with myself and can give my full self to my husband.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:19 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I was 13. Am 42 now. Have had at least 50 partners. Don't regret a single thing!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:22 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • No reason to put myself on anon, EVERYONE has skeletons in their closet. I'm 19 and I've had about 18 partners. I have a Husband now and of course he's going to be my last! I loved sex, and I was just one of those dumb ass teenagers back in the day, because I almost never used any form of b/c.
    WeLuvOurNUGGET

    Answer by WeLuvOurNUGGET at 6:24 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • I have been with one person my husband. I think more than one is too many.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:24 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

  • oh and yes God did bless me by not giving me a single pregnancy... who knows how many times I could have gotten pregnant :/
    WeLuvOurNUGGET

    Answer by WeLuvOurNUGGET at 6:24 PM on Feb. 18, 2009

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