Custody agreement is 50/50 No CS either way.The boys legal address is that of his mother according to the CA
Mother lives with mother and has since the divorce.
Father got remarried and has one child.
Mother is planning on moving in with BF (a new residence to both) in October 6 weeks after school begins.
BF has three boys who live with him.
Mother has stated and it has been heard by others including the boy in question that he hates him and does not want his boys anywhere near him.
The boys also , naturally hate him, or say they do, and gang up on the boy. This is not to the extent of needing to go to the hospital, but there have been blows and other torments.
The boy does not wish to live with these 4 males but loves his mother.
The mother is now going to child services for CS because she is a single income and the Ex is 2 income. To this point the ex has provided all the clothes for school and activities and provides medical.
Here is the question.
If you were the man how would you approach FS on your son's and your own behalf? The ex is happy to have the boy live full time with him. The mother will not agree to this willingly.
Will the mother have to go to court for CS? Would the ex and or his son have to go to court to change the living arrangements?
I am a regular but this is legal stuff. Thanks
Asked by Anonymous at 10:17 PM on Aug. 7, 2013 in General Parenting
Answer by feralxat at 12:58 AM on Aug. 8, 2013
Why would the mother willingly move in when the other boys are acting like that before they even live together? Mom needs to get her head out of bf's ass and do what is best for the child.
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