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Over the last few years my DH and I have been having some trouble with our marriage. My DH has untreated ADHD, depression and anxiety. I have been helping him with his mental illness for years and now I am finally tired of being strong for him and I am trying to regain more of who I was. He always complains that I am not the woman that he married, but he doesn't let me be me. He wants me to be a female version of him and that isn't who or what I want to be. He gets angry and tries to blame me for his problems instead of owning his own faults. Every time he gets angry about me going out without him I feel like he doesn't trust me even though I have never given him a cause to not trust me. If I don't disclose every detail the very first time we talk about it and then if I learn more and tell him he acts like I was trying to hide it from him.
So tired of being not trusted, would marriage counseling actually work or should I just get out now?
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