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what does it mean the bed is undefiled

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Asked by drj755 at 6:53 PM on Aug. 13, 2013 in Religion & Beliefs

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  • You haven't had sex on it yet.

    Answer by 2autisticsmom at 6:58 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • Context, please?

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 7:08 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • Yeah, it kind of depends on what the rest of the paragraph around it is, at least.

    Answer by Ballad at 7:48 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • never been slept on? never been used for sex? never been peed in? take your pick

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:51 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • I'd see that as no hanky panky has taken place.

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 8:04 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • Usually that mean, not one has had sex in it.

    Answer by louise2 at 8:18 PM on Aug. 13, 2013

  • My guess without context is the owner of the bed is still a virgin.

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 12:57 AM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • 1) Bride is a virgin AND
    2) Sex only occurs within the bounds of marriage.

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 10:53 AM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • I understood it from my fundamentalist, charismatic Christian friends that this means as long as a couple are married, the bed remains undefiled no matter what they do in it. In other words, all kinds of acts are sanctioned. You can have oral sex, anal sex, even spankings if that is what you like, as long as it is within marriage.

    Answer by lilangilyn at 3:46 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • sex b4 marriage or not with your marriage mate is wrong

    Answer by Nerdzy at 12:04 AM on Sep. 3, 2013

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