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Why do some women find better in the army?


My friend had a 10 month relationship at home but while she was deployed she met another guy in the army. They both are active also, and they just got married. Why do women soldiers forget their boyfriends and find love in the army?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:17 PM on Aug. 14, 2013 in Relationships

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  • Same reason guys find love with other military members.
    funlovinlady

    Answer by funlovinlady at 11:19 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • "If you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one you're with!"
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 11:19 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • Many reasons, however, the most common reason is that they have something in common and they are around each other more than with civilians. 

    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 11:23 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • I didn't.
    PMSMom10

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 11:23 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • Well first of all if they are finding BETTER men, I don't think it matters where they find them. As for the WHY same reason anyone finds someone else and if the new person is BETTER than the previous, well good for them.
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 11:26 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

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    • I didn't.


      That's cause you were smart and snagged a great one from the get go. 


    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 11:27 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • @pm like Kristi said...you found a good man before generation was getting worse. I always see this and wanted to know why sone wonen do it. If you married, you have nothing to worry about lol
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:31 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • We weren't married when I joined the Army. We were dating.
    Like Kristi said, I found a good man from the get go.
    When I was away from him, he's all I thought about.
    No one else compared.
    Our relationship was strong when I left and we worked hard to keep it that way.
    This was before internet, cell phones etc. We depended on snail mail, lol
    PMSMom10

    Answer by PMSMom10 at 11:40 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • Oooooo Pms mom you are a winner! Lol back then honey things was not as complicated as today....so yes you have a good man. I'm shocked my friend went off and got married in the army.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 11:46 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

  • I always see this and wanted to know why sone wonen do it.


    Maybe instead of asking why some women want BETTER men, you should ask why shit men think they DESERVE good women?
    KristiS11384

    Answer by KristiS11384 at 11:46 PM on Aug. 14, 2013

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