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Is this cheating and what would you do?

I am seeing this guy that i really like and care about. A few days ago I saw some texts from this girl he was flirting with and telling her he loves her and how they want to be together forever. He said I shouldn't have looked. We decided to stay together and make it work. Should I give up...or in some cases should you try to make it work?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:43 PM on Aug. 15, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (18)
  • Yeah, I would've left that second, after telling him to go fuck himself.
    3libras

    Answer by 3libras at 3:44 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • Yes and let him go be with one he wants forever with.
    virginiamama71

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 3:46 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • i wouldnt stay with a man who wanted to be with someone else. id tell him he can have her.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 3:48 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • " telling her he loves her and how they want to be together forever."

    And this didn't concern you???
    Crafty26

    Answer by Crafty26 at 3:48 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • You read it in black & white on his phone & you still are thinking to try some more? Geez. Does he have to make a banner with a 10 piece band for you to understand he is using you?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:51 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • why would you stay and try to make it work?
    he wants to be with another
    why they are not together- not relevant

    you are not the one

    move on and find one that wants you
    or, do not even look and enjoy life until he comes along
    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 3:52 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • If it's hidden from you, it's cheating. If he wouldn't say those things to her in front of your face, it's cheating.
    Great Guy. Best of luck.
    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 3:53 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • You read about him and another girl, he turns it around on you and you think you should stay with this POS? Yeah, good luck with that!
    kmath

    Answer by kmath at 3:58 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • So what,girls don't have any self esteem anymore? You'd think you'd expect more for yourself....
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:59 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

  • So what,girls don't have any self esteem anymore? You'd think you'd expect more for yourself....


    Amen, sister!

    PartyGalAnne

    Answer by PartyGalAnne at 4:03 PM on Aug. 15, 2013

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