I just had a long talk with my boyfriends mother.
I didn't expect her to tell me this stuff, but maybe she just feels sorry for me.
She told me she knows her son, and that he is a big manipulator. He seems to been having bad luck lately, so she was saying she thinks its God whos doing this to him because of his 'bad spirit'. Not too sure what she meant about that, but then she goes on to say that he's lazy, and he doesn't like to work.
So I told her, "well hes told me he had a cadilliac, Bmw, nice homes before, and good jobs"...And she stops me and goes, "uh he was depending--" Then stops right there. Then goes on to say, that his ex wife of 9 years left him because he didn't like to work. She says that she was tired of him living off her and paying for everything. She says that his EX ruined him, and he 's not a man because she loved him, and did everything for him!
So I asked her. " Do you think he was using her?" She wouldnt give me a forward answer, she just said, he was depending on her.
I told her I didn't know if I should move on or not, and she said to just follow my heart.
Is this basically her way of telling me to let go?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:34 AM on Aug. 18, 2013 in Relationships
Answer by goldpandora at 4:47 AM on Aug. 18, 2013
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Answer by geminisummerz at 1:11 PM on Aug. 18, 2013
Depends. You didn't mention if he works or provides for himself at all. You just said what his mother told you. I have known some mothers that aren't as enthusiastic of what their kids have accomplished (one is a narcissist and the other is just plain jealous of her kids or anyone that does better than her). If what she has warned you about is part of his character now, she's likely on the up and up and letting you know what you are getting.
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