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mom and grandmother have joint custody but live in different states now, and grandmother has raised the now 14 yr old child, but mom wants him back and child wants to live with mom, who is stable

Grandmother is now in her 80s

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Asked by lacisky at 4:01 PM on Aug. 18, 2013 in Teens (13-17)

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  • The courts will have to decide. The kid is old enough now, the judge will listen to his wishes.

    Answer by Ballad at 4:08 PM on Aug. 18, 2013

  • Thank you for sharing this information.

    Answer by feralxat at 4:12 PM on Aug. 18, 2013

  • Are you the mom?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:14 PM on Aug. 18, 2013

  • It depends on the laws of the state. How old the child has to be to legally decide where they would like to live. The grandmother's health will be a question as well.

    Answer by jprattrn at 9:48 PM on Aug. 18, 2013

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