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2 Bumps

Do i still love him? cant stand him most of the time and want to avoid him.

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:26 AM on Aug. 21, 2013 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • I don't know, do you? You're the only one that can answer that question. Why can't you stand him and want to avoid him?

    Answer by mommy_jules at 10:39 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • Only you know that.

    Answer by 3libras at 10:40 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • If I love someone I typically don't want to avoid them.

    Answer by Mrs_Prissy at 10:44 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • Why are you avoiding him?

    Answer by DJDNY at 10:46 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • I doubt it. Odds are you miss the comfort and security of someone you know well, doesn't mean you still love the person.

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 10:50 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • When I want to avoid someone, it's not because I love them. When I reach the point where I dread seeing/talking to him, avoid him and feel like I can't stand him, I know it's over.

    Answer by wendythewriter at 11:00 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • My Magic 8 Ball says, "no"

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:05 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • So a cult which advocated the mistreatment of you and kids?
    Get therapy to get over fear and get out

    Answer by feralxat at 11:25 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • I would say it's time to move on and start over. No man is worth that kind of suffering. Do what is right for you and your kids. If you are just keeping him there as a financial crutch then you need to drop it. Stand on your own two feet because you can do it without him even though it will be hard at first.
    Good luck!!

    Answer by goofygalno1 at 11:31 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

  • You don't love him. If you loved him you'd never have written your original question. You're depending on him, instead. STOP. That's dangerous.

    Call 211. It's a national hotline for social services. They can get you what you need.

    Answer by gdiamante at 11:54 AM on Aug. 21, 2013

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