Only reason I know is that his "step"-daughter(he considers her his not a step) posted for prayers for him online(FB) and I responded(positively). She messaged me to fill me in. I guess he has developed a seizure disorder and fell and hit his head and now has a brain hemorage. He also had surgery a few days ago for several blood clots(two near his heart) which probably explains the hemorage as I'm sure he is on blood thinners.
I told her I hope he gets better and she asked me if I wanted her to update me. I haven't responded. Truth is that at this point in my life I don't really care. Of course I feel bad that he is ill but it isn't much different then if some stranger was ill. He was out of my life from age 1-21(when my brother found him). And after years of attempting to reach out to him and build a relationship with him and he only halfway reciprocated I gave up. The last straws where when he didn't feel the need to even send a card or a text congratulating me on getting married and has had no contact with my son since I spent $400 flying all of us down to see him when my son was a few months old.
He really isn't my father not in the real sense....it is strange because I had a dream the other night that he had died and I was at his funeral.
I don't know how to respond to her. I told her I hope he gets better but haven't responded to if I want updates...I guess I'll just leave it be for now?
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