I am 24 and was engaged to a wonderful man. Our relationship ended because of stress in our lives and he just couldn't deal with his stress. He felt like he needed to go it alone or else he would bring me down. I was devastated. We still talked everyday and I tried bringing the subject of us up numerous times but kept getting shut down. He finally said to me that it was over for good and we would never get back together and all he could ever offer is friendship. Well I believed him. This is months later and Someone shows an interest in me. I took a chance w/ him and he turned out to be wonderful. Then to my surprise all the sudden my ex fiance wants me back. I am torn between two wonderful men. One I love more than anything and the other I care about so much. But I am afraid to make the wrong choice. How can I choose?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:34 PM on Feb. 18, 2009 in Relationships
I hate guys like your ex. They only want you when someone else enters the picture. Your ex has shown you that when things get tough, he hauls ass. I would continue on with the new guy.
Answer by Magpie75 at 10:37 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
Answer by miss_nevin at 10:38 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:38 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:39 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
Answer by miss_nevin at 10:40 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
I would still choose the new guy. When I am stressed beyond my husband is the one that I turn to. I do not shove him away. By him doing that it shows that he does not feel as strongly for you as he should. He should let you there to comfort him and make his life better.
Answer by Magpie75 at 10:48 PM on Feb. 18, 2009
Answer by Pattyca56 at 10:59 PM on Feb. 18, 2009